December and January are always the good time to get our financial check-up and revisit what matters most. So lately I have been thinking about numbers, numbers, numbers, numbers and more numbers for the most part as what to expect in 2012 –such as savings (for emergency, for a child and etc), major spending and emergency expenses.
It can be difficult to foresee the financial situations over the course of months but I always like to be on the safe side by trying to keep some money in an emergency saving account for rainy days which you never know when, given that we are in today’s challenging economy. Before I go on with my story, I have to tell you that I am a CFO (Chief Financial Officer) of our household who foresees and manages every single dollar of the incoming and outgoing $$$$. The husband and I both work full time.

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Being in a position that I am, a CFO, sometimes I let the thought and fear of “uncertainty and job insecurity” get the worst out of me. You look around, see or hear people losing their jobs all over the country and literally freak out. Recently I heard a story of a coworker who left the company not too long ago because she found a new and hopeful career in an oil and gas industry (which is booming here once again by the way). A month later, she got laid off!! She was there just for a few weeks!!! Now she is out of work and looking for an employment. Dang - talking about an uncertainty here.
A minimum of six month emergency saving used to be a stardard to go by but now they (those financial experts/analysts) are talking about a year’s worth of emergency saving! Are you kidding me?! I have already had enough challenge with six month’s worth of saving, my goodness. It almost seems like you have to keep up with an inflation and weak dollars as you go. Since I am the kind of gal who would rather have money in the bank, I choose to put more stress in my life and save as much as I could.
Until recently I asked myself “Is this the life I want to live?”. I don’t want the stress of saving to take the joy in life away. At the same time, I can’t bear the thought of blowing the hard earned money I have saved for years to satisfy my material needs.

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Everything has to be in moderation, I need to find that balance. Hello – Mr. Balance..where are you buddy?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!??!?!?!?! I can’t find you.
Every year I learn something new on financial perspectives from my own successes and failures with personal money management. I am not a financial expert and I learn from trial and error. There are some major lesson learned in the area of spending / saving which I am happliy sharing them with you tomorrow in my Part II. Stay tuned.
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Are you more of a spender or a saver?
This is a great post Nelah.....Im the same way....Im always stashing $ away for a rainy day. You never know when the day will come...or how long the rain will last:(
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I would say im a saver :) I think it was something instilled in me from my father from young :) So it has kinda stuck! Though if I see something I absolutely love I will def get it :)
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Thanks for sharing your post. You have inspired me to be more accountable with my finances!
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Trial and error is a good way to learn. Hopefully the error part won't be too costly.
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I wish I had been more finance savvy before I had kids. Now I have 4 and they get more expensive every year. I can't imagine if I will ever have 6 months rainy day money.
ReplyDeleteWe're savers, and whenever I want something for myself, I ask whether I need it or not, or whether I'd rather save up for something better. The secret is in a well-managed, constantly evolving budget that you stick to.
ReplyDeletei am a spender and a saver! my husband is actually a pretty good saver so thank god i have someone to give me in check once in awhile!!
ReplyDeleteFor 2012 im planning on opening a 529 plan for kaylee so she can use for college later on, maybe set something up for your lil one so you dont have to worry much when she's older?
oh money money money, if only they grow on trees :D merry christmas nelah!
Great post Nelah! I use to spend carelessly and a lot, but I have cut back tremendously and will remain that way. I can't wait to read part II. It's very important to save. :)
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I do believe in saving and my Dad was always drumming it in! However, my Aunt once said to me you only live once and you never know whether there will be a 2morrow. I personally would rather spend some of my money now and enjoy myself so long as I can pay for it! Great post Nelah, definitely food for thought :) x
ReplyDeleteThank you for leaving such a sweet comment on my blog. I'm a saver though not as anal as I used to be. I would still spend albeit on items that will last for a while or have a high resale value. You're absolutely right about the current economic climate. Everyone around me (and us included) are so much more careful these days. Restructuring, lay offs, etc etc is the common theme so I'd much rather have money in the bank than a closet full of clothes.
ReplyDeleteAh, I love this post! I am a saver-- maybe majoring in accounting has helped me in this area. I mean I still buy whatever I want.. but I know not to buy everything. After all you can't wake money with you..
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Hahaha! Isn't that most people' problem? I'm more of a saver, but I always blow it on June/July and December, my twice-a-year buy-anything-you-want seasons. And I've been buying gold bars as well in addition to the usual mutual funds, because it beats inflation and very very liquid.
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