Bangkok series: On the go

Spotted these vintage pointy flats on my first shopping day in Bangkok. There is something about the design that makes me feel like a Parisian chic everytime I put these shoes on. I had not gone shoes shopping in ages - okay I exxagerated but doesn't three years sound like "forever" to you? I love flats but sometimes it is just not easy to find a good looking pair, not to mention the fit my tiny feet. Shoes shopping back home was like a paradise to me. Pretty shoes are everywhere. They come in different sizes, designs, colors, qualities and prices. Oh heaven!!!!! In the past, my purchases were mainly heels which ended up sitting unworn somewhere in the house. This time around, I knew I had to make a better move or else my husband would give me a look for buying something that I will never wear.

These cute little darlings come in three different (the ones shown above, light grey and light blue). I wanted them all to tell you the truth. Making a decision on a pair of shoes could never be that difficult but it was a tough one. Couldn't I have them all?!?! My braing was working really hard at that point. After 30 seconds of thorough consideration, I grabbed two pairs, paid and left the store happily ever after! Thinking back, I should have gotten the other color too haha.

Poor poor rose - it got squeezed in the suitcase. Hope it returns to its shape soon

On an unrelated note, I feel so darn tired after this trip. It is like I need a vacation after vacation if that makes any sense to you. Traveling with a child is definitely a whole new story, it never felt like you can really get to relax because you still have a little one to take care 24 hours. I guess I am still in the process of recuperating. The whole vacation was not that relaxing itself, it was more like a rush because we had very limited time. There were several things we could not do or had to cancel. So many people to see but we couldn't see everyone. If you haven't had a child yet, I highly recommend that you take the time and travel because it will be more difficult when you have one. I am not saying it is a horrible experience but it takes a lot more preparation. With good planning and preparation, the trip can be as smooth as silk (really?! lol).

One interesting comment my friends made to me was that I acted a lot more mature. I also feel like I am not who I used to be since last time I saw them. I acted silly, really silly, was a lot more playful and not so serious about life. Over the last three years, things changed dramatically. I am not sure that I totally like this change myself. I have become a lot more of an introvert and take things a lot more seriously. Planning is my top priority and I like to feel that I am in control of everything which sometimes drive me insane. I do want to be a silly person who I used to be. I want to be that person who can relax, laugh, go with the flow and stop planning things. Sometimes we just focus on something too much that we igore the joy and beauty in life and I am the case. I seriously need to take the time to go to a temple, meditate and find my inner peace once again. I wish I went to temples when I was home because the nearest Thai temple here is over an hour away!!

My husband is an extreme opposite. He is so laid back, cool and calm in every situation (there are times when he gets frustrated and freaks out but very rare). If my husband and I were the same type, I didn't think we could stay together because things would go downhill and down the drain lol. There are times I want him to be like me but at the end of the day I feel grateful he is the way he is. I guess this is the case when the difference creates a harmony and nice balance in the relationship. Okay..my self-therapy session is over for today - hope you enjoy me rambling and complaning :)

Bangkok series: Black roses

One of the major changes I did during this trip was my hair. After a year or two of straight black hair, I decided to get my hair permed, colored and do hair extension. It is fun to try something differnt after a while but I know it is going to take a lot more time and maintenance to avoid looking like crazy hair on my head.

Found this pretty and unique blouse during shopping spree last Thrusday in Bangkok. A blouse comes in black and fushia with rose details around the neck, plus pleats and ruffles in the front. Couldn't help myself but grab three (two in black and one in fushia). The fit is impressive, it runs small (fits perfectly especially the armholes) perhaps a tad bit roomy in the front for me but not bad. However, it is not flattering on me (obviously I didn't try it before I purchased, duh!). Some will be up for blog sale in the near future after I go through all of my latest purchases.

Bracelet

Handbag

Smashion & Bangkok series: Lace and Bows

First of all, I have been behind in updating my own blog and am hoping to catch up with other fellow bloggers in the days to come so please be patient with me. Back in January, I was contacted by Vanessa and introduced to a cool website "Smashion" to do a quick interview. I had no clue what Smashion was and I was thrilled to be introduced to a new community/marketplace where bloggers can buy and sell their items. She contacted me just in time because I was thinking about starting my blog sale this year after my trip to Bangkok and Smashion appears to be a potential spot. I have yet to set up a store but will soon do so as soon as I can get my stuff together, mostly brand new items for petite ladies who search good quality, chic and unique cloths made in Thailand at affordable price and like my style - stay tuned :). If you are interested, my interview with Smashion was posted on 2/9/11.

Back to my shopping spree in Bangkok - big big thanks to my husband who patiently followed, waited and carried my shopping bags around town and to my parents who watched our little one while mommy and daddy could have a little getaway. In the past, I would go out and shop the day after I got off the plane and my parents would not see me until 9 or 10 pm every night. However, things have changed whether I liked it or not. The reality of motherhood hit me for the 100th time yelling and pounding in my head that I could not just take off and leave. Parents do NOT have a vacation, literally! We spent the first four days dealing with my little one's adjustment to a new environment and jet lag. It was stressful and tough on everyone but the strom finally past, and I was able to go out and shop like a shophocolic!! I just couldn't believe how fast I spent money and how frugal I used to be. I was like I was a new person lol.

My husband raised his eyebrows every time I pick up "more" shoes at the shops. I think I am better as far as buying what I will actually wear. In the past I bought several pair of shoes that went unworn up to these days. I picked up several flats and just a "few" high heels. These black and white lace with bows are my most favorite pair. Aren't they sexy? The only thing I wish they did differently was those gold hooks, would be nice if they were in black.

Bangkok series: Sweet Life

Helloooooooooooooo there! Nope I had not stopped blogging just yet. January and February turned out to be my very busy months preparing for a big trip to - Bangkok, Thailand - that is. My last visit was back in 2008 so it had been three full years and I am telling you I was THRILLED knowing that my wait would soon be over. Every minute is worthwhile and I seriously do not want to leave EVER!!!!

The airplane ride with my two year old was MUCH better than expected. She had her moments from time to time but she did fantastic overall considering how young she is and how much attention span a child this age has. My husband and I are so proud of her. It was extremely tiring and exhausting when travelled with a young child and tried to keep her entertained for 24 hours with very little sleep (for the entire 24 hour time frame from here to Bangkok, she slept only 3 hours on and off!). Other than that horrible jet lag that three of us had (took 4 days for our little one) and a big adjustment that my daughter had to make, I was glad we made it safe and sound so everyone in my family could see and spend time with her.

The most exciting part before our journey began even before we got on the plane. Just one day before our departure date, our city was also affected by that snow strom just like the most part of the country earlier this month. It was very very very rare circumstance for us in this state to experience extreme cold weather, let alone sleet or ice but it just happened. The power went on and off all day, we were concerned that our flight may be delayed or even canceled because there was a forecast of sleet and chance of snow by the end of the week. However, the plane came directly from Japan so we were clear to go. Once we arrived in Bangkok, we were told by my mother-in-law that the airport shut down just 12 hours after we left due to ice and sleet!!!!!!!!

Three hour layover at Narita - it went by so fast when we had a litle one to entertain

**Welcome to my home sweet home - Bangkok, Thailand**

The weather in February is pleasantly warm to hot comparing to what we experience in the US. The temperature is in the upper 80's during the day and mid 70's at night. You bet, it is also very humid. It gives us a break from that crazy cold and yucky weather.

I miss everything about this city. People always take things for granted and I am one of them. I didn't have much appreciation when I lived here but now I do more than ever. The ability to walk to places, use transportation like bus/taxi/sky train or subway without driving your own car. Everything is pretty much within a walking distance. Variety of great tasting food, sightseeings, shopping centers - ahhh. . . .I am in heaven.

A highlight of this trip also includes "SHOPPING", of course. "I" failed miserably as far as setting a limit. In fact, I did set a limit of $1,000 for food, entertainment and clothes but I ended up blowing almost doubled amount because 1) US dollars are very weak 2) the cost of living in Bangkok has gone up big time, you will be surprised to pay about as much as what you pay in the US for food, grocery and clothes in certain areas. 3) everything looks great, I can't resist!!! I shopped like I had never shopped before, let me tell you. Shopping has never felt this good in three years!!

It was nice being able to wear these babies, not boots in February


One of my favorite pieces I purchased during my first shopping day.


Bows